4. You get this thrilling sense of power.
Another fear that motivates people to play hard to get is the fear of being rejected. One way to stave off that fear is to feel like you are in control.
Keeping the other person “off balance” and uncertain may give you the impression that you’re the one with the power and — therefore — won’t be the one getting hurt if it doesn’t work out.
This, of course, is not what power is all about. Power is you listening to yourself and honoring what you want. Power is you being authentic and honest, even if it’s uncomfortable or feels like a risk. Power is you knowing that your worth and value aren’t determined by anyone other than you.
Resist the urge to focus all of your attention on them or on the potential relationship that may be blossoming. Just because you’ve stopped playing hard to get, doesn’t mean you should go to the opposite extreme and be clingy, high need, smothering, or emotionally dependent.
The big lesson here is to be real and, above all, stay true to yourself.
Source: Yourtango
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