Signs your guy is playing you for a fool – It only happens … if YOU let it. Have you ever left a dating experience feeling like a complete fool, wondering what the heck happened? You clearly missed the warning signals the guy sent, or perhaps didn’t know what to look for.
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As a dating coach for women, I’ve seen this happen so many times in my 14 year practice, and ladies — being made a fool of by men has GOT TO STOP.
To that end, I’m going to reveal seven red flags that let you know that the guy you’re dating is NOT serious about you. And if you allow it, he’ll make a fool out of you. He’s not necessarily mean, but he just doesn’t want the same type of relationship that you do.
Often this problem stems from single women believing the can change a man’s desire for a relationship. That is pure fantasy. Once a man tells you he doesn’t want a relationship or, when he doesn’t make time to see you on real dates, the rest lands on your shoulders.
Yes, it’s up to YOU to maintain standards for the treatment that you want and deserve.
Establishing boundaries means that you know what you will and will not put up with to have a man in your life. And quality men who want a loving relationship will pursue you and do their best to win you over. They will happily spend time with you, treat you well and try to impress you.
If he doesn’t act this way from the start, or dating disintegrates into a virtual relationship — you need to cut him loose. Otherwise the chances are extremely high that you have some serious embarrassment headed your way.
Here are the seven telltale signs to watch for that let you know he’s not serious about you.
1. He tells you he doesn’t want a relationship, but you date him anyway.
You go on a first date with a man who has many qualities you’re seeking. He tells you right away he doesn’t want a relationship and then engages you in interesting conversation. You like him and decide to see where things go. This is a big mistake.
When a man says he doesn’t want a relationship, you need to believe him and move on.
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