2. At a club/party
The club is probably the one place in Nigeria where the men are boldest. If they like you, they will come up to you and ask you for a dance or wait until you are outside, and there is less noise, to get your attention. If you jam a desperate one, he will not stop until you give him a chance to talk to you from buying drinks to even shutting down the VIP just so you guys can talk.
3. Walking down the road
Sometimes even in a simple outfit and no effort, you will have some ‘big man’ or ‘rich man’ in a car, drive by you just to talk to you. Some of them will make show of it and park their car and run to talk to you or some will just drive at your walking pace until you give them a moment of your time. Even those without cars will try to holla at you so don’t think you are out of the red on pedestrian walks.
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