5. Don’t Rush Downtown

“A lot of men approach oral sex as an act of foreplay,” says Kerner. “But direct clitoral stimulation might not feel good at the start of sex.” So spend at least five minutes kissing, caressing, and working the rest of her body first. And since so many women claim that receiving oral sex is the best way to consistently orgasm (not sure about your lady? just ask!) Kerner also suggests that you consider making it your game-time performance—and not just a warm-up drill.

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