The Non-Teachable. Like I mentioned above, I actually believe that none of us is perfect yet. No matter how good we think we are, our weaknesses and flaws are still as obvious as anything. But the good thing is that we make effort and we are willing to improve on ourselves on daily basis which is the best thing anyone can allow happen to himself or herself. However, when a lady is haughty and cocky then she can’t come down from her high horse to learn, she is simply the non-teachable type because she believes she is at her best and expects any guy that she is involved with come down to her level and adjust to her way of life rather than both ways. Let’s consider a situation where a lady is so uncouth when it comes to the word of her mouth. In all sincerity, she still needs to be given the benefit of the doubt and be allowed to work on herself over a period of time without any iota of rejection. But where the concern lies is if she is not convinced that there is something repulsive about the way she talks and despite all attempts to point her in the right direction, she always comes up with a that-is-me kind of attitude, then it leaves much to be desired. She is not teachable and doesn’t have the capacity to embrace change. I wouldn’t want anyone to be caught in that illusion that they can change anyone. As a matter of fact, there is little or nothing you can do about it. She has her own way of doing things even when she is being introduced to a superior way, she will still find it difficult to accept because she is fixated. Most of the time, when she is being corrected, she feels it’s your personal way of life you are trying to impose on her so she immediately builds a wall of resistance against it. A non-teachable lady is usually an arrogant one!
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