Step #1 Figure out her routine
Does the girl you like work in the cubicle next to yours or does she come by to the same cafeteria for lunch? Or is your crush in the same university or in the next class? Get these little bits of information and that can help you a long way.
Over a few days, see if you can figure a routine. It will be a lot easier to spot her and make your move if you know her routine in advance.
If you know that the girl you like always has a gelato after lunch, then make sure you’re at the right place at around the same time. A smile if both of you step in at the same time is a great start if you can work up your courage for it.
Bumping into her every now and then is more than half the work done. And a couple of weeks later, you could just smile, walk up to her and say “how are you?”
If you can really pull this off, then well, you’re not a shy guy anymore, are you?!
You can skip the other two moves if you’re able to start a conversation with her right away. But as with everything else in life, it’s not that easy to start a conversation when you’re feeling all vulnerable and shy. If you can’t really start ask a girl out even after bumping in occasionally, then move on to the second step.
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