8 Kinds of FRIENDS you really need– Are you missing the perfect friendship you’ve always fantasized about all your life? Having these 8 kinds of friends in your life will change all of that! By Briallyn Smith
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I grew up reading about best friends in novels and watching them on TV – no matter what crazy events happened, they would always have each other’s backs, and no fight was ever too big to be resolved.
As a result, I found that I expected a lot from every single one of my friendships – I’d want each of my friends to be there for me all the time, to want to do things with me no matter what, and to invest as much as possible into our friendship.
Unsurprisingly, a lot of these friendships either ended or changed significantly as we grew and changed.
I think that what we see in TV and the media, these portrayals of ‘kindred spirits’ and ‘best friends forever’ can be harmful to real life friendships.
After all, real people don’t have script-writers working to give us the right things to say all the time, and real life doesn’t have the implicit guarantee that things will work out by the end of the show.
The 8 kinds of friends all of us need in our life
What I have learned is that even though I may never find a single person who will be able to fill every hope I have for a friendship, there are so many friends who are perfect at filling one of those roles.
In life, you don’t need just one friend to fill all the requirements of a friendship. In fact, it would be farfetched and even ridiculous if you expect all your expectations to be granted by just one best friend.
So the next best thing you can hope for, is to fill your life with several friends, who can all give you the fulfillment of experiencing the best times and memories of friendship without ever feeling like you’re lacking the picture perfect life of the television shows!
Here are 8 friends that you definitely need in your life, Beecause together, they can make your life feel just as meaningful and memorable as any perfect friendship can ever make you feel:
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