BIG Lies people in an unhappy relationship tell themselves

4. “Things Will Change Once … “

This is the kind of lie you keep saying to yourself after you reach a new set of milestones. First, you might say: “Things will get better once he gets a job.” Then, when he’s got his new job, you realise that, actually, things are still the same.

So you say: “Things will get better once I’ve passed my exams.” Then, when you pass your exams, you realise that things are still the same. This lie could go on and on, and it’s a serious symptom of an unhappy relationship – and a serious sign that it’s time for a change.

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5. “Every Relationship Is Like This”

No, every unhappy relationship is like this.

Sure, every relationship has its ups and downs, but happy ones have more ups than they do downs. Happy partners talk to one another about their problems and iron them out. Unhappy relationships are the kind where you feel miserable 24/7, and where you have to fight with everything you’ve got for crumbs of happiness.