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And that means that the men who focus on trying to keep their relationships in the “stasis” where they feel most comfortable and not have things change end up in direct opposition to their women, who are trying to push things forward and achieve their own relationship goals. This is a recipe for disaster, and it’s why most relationships fail horribly.
What’s the solution to this quagmire? Know your purpose.
Why are you in a relationship, and what’s the end goal? Is it:
- To get more experience having relationships and learn what it’s like to date?
- To get more experience having a relationship with a particular kind of girl (e.g., a really beautiful girl)?
- Is it just to have a casual sex partner?
- Is it to get married?
- Is it to have kids?
- Is it just to have someone to talk to?
- Is it for emotional support?
READ ALSO – 10 Signs You have truly fallen in love
And that means that the men who focus on trying to keep their relationships in the “stasis” where they feel most comfortable and not have things change end up in direct opposition to their women, who are trying to push things forward and achieve their own relationship goals. This is a recipe for disaster, and it’s why most relationships fail horribly.
What’s the solution to this quagmire? Know your purpose.
Why are you in a relationship, and what’s the end goal? Is it:
- To get more experience having relationships and learn what it’s like to date?
- To get more experience having a relationship with a particular kind of girl (e.g., a really beautiful girl)?
- Is it just to have a casual sex partner?
- Is it to get married?
- Is it to have kids?
- Is it just to have someone to talk to?
- Is it for emotional support?
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