All it means is that if you want a healthy relationship that goes the way you’d really love it to, you’re going to need to do a little more than just follow your heart and trust in destiny.
How to Start a Relationship: The Game Plan
To properly kick off a new relationship, you need to understand a few basic relationship principles:
- Women want to date men they respect as leaders and who treat them as equals, but NOT men whowhite knight or put women on pedestals
- Women quickly become disillusioned, and eventually disgusted, with men who are more in love with them or more invested in the relationship than they are
- The relationship investment patterns you set during the first 90 days you will be expected to keep up indefinitely; any reduced investment later on will lead to your girlfriend feeling as if “things aren’t the way they used to be” or that you “don’t love her as much anymore”
These in mind, let’s look at all the things you should do in the first 90 days if you want to have the BEST possible relationship later on down the line.
Note: I’m certain people will protest in the comments and say, “But I want to do X,” or, “But I really like doing Y!” And that’s great; if the most important thing to you is satisfying your immediate emotions, do that. If the most important thing to you is having the best relationship possible for yourself later on down the line, do this instead. I’m not forcing anybody to do anything here; I’m simply arming you with the strategy to succeed at building an amazing relationship, if you so choose.
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