How to get a girl to kiss you by arousing her

#3 Sit close and flirt sexually

For starters, sit close to her. And eventually, find an excuse to sit really close, either to read a book together or to show her something on your phone. Be discreet and never let her know what your intentions are, just yet.

Don’t get sexual straight away. Talk about how nice a person she is, about the time you first saw her, or about a few memorable events that both of you share. Once you’re warmed up, get personal with your talk. If you’re not dating her, talk about her relationships or the last time she made out with a guy. If you’re dating her, just talk about anything, it really doesn’t matter.