2. Talk about things from the past that upset you or hurt you
This hookup is not for fixing what went down before. If the past comes up, gently cut off the conversation and say you don’t want to go there again. “Don’t snap, don’t cut him off, and don’t yell,” says Durvasula. “But also don’t engage it, and gently put it down.”
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