10 Shocking bedroom taboos you ought to try at least once

6. Desperation

Don’t underestimate the power of feeling uncomfortable – at least, pleasantly uncomfortable. You can explore feeling desperate in a number of ways. The most famous is edging, which you have probably already heard of – and maybe already tried. You can also try drinking a lot and holding your pee in. Sounds bizarre, but the pressure this puts on your body can make you feel excited. Get your partner to try it too; this effect is even more pronounced in women. Even setting a timer and deciding you’re not allowed to touch your partner until it hits zero can enhance anticipation and make the payoff 10 times better.