10 Ways to fix a sexless marriage

3. Create a loving and kind environment.

Now comes the fun part of healing your sexless marriage. The first step to getting intimacy back on track is to commit to what we call a “Culture of Pleasure” in your relationship. Every relationship has a culture, created by how you treat one another day in and day out.

Make it a priority to be kind, caring and loving toward one another. Go out of your way to love and serve your partner, and be grateful when they do the same. The goal is to create an environment where you both feel loved, valued and appreciated. No deed is too small — from doing extra dishes to complimenting your partner, every moment of kindness counts.