6. A Great Sex Partner Is Confident
“Confidence and assertiveness isn’t about always taking charge or always initiating. Rather it’s a quality that allows you to be flexible and secure as you navigate the ebb and flow of sexuality in your relationship,” Boykin says. “Great sex partners don’t shy away from adventure or vulnerability in sex; they embrace it with self-assurance. That willingness to put yourself out there and trust that you have something amazing to offer your sex partner is often a self-fulfilling prophecy leading you to be the greatest sex partner they ever had.”
By showing your partner that you are a sexual being and you’re confident in your abilities, you’re illustrating that you’re going to be in charge of your sexual destiny. This way, she knows you’re always up for something and always willing to learn. “Just remember that confidence is not the same as cockiness (no pun intended),” Boykin notes. “You still need to be curious and attentive to your partner’s needs but when you ask do so with the confidence that whatever they need, you are the man who can give it to them.”
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