Turn your Bedroom into a Love-Sex Den – Crack a window, because it’s about to get steamy.
When I was a kid, my bedroom was a sacred space. No one spent time in my room aside from my friends and me. The walls were covered with things I loved, my belongings were arranged just so, and when I shut the door the rest of the world didn’t exist.
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Which left me standing in my own bedroom several weeks ago wondering, What the hell happened? Simply put, I had let my bedroom go. It was no longer a private and sacred space; rather, it had become a community catch-all and playground for our two kids.
Sharing a bedroom with my husband over the last decade has had its own ups and downs too, like his socks on the floor or balled-up tissues stuck in the headboard. My husband also had a pile of “not dirty enough to be washed but not clean enough to be put away” clothes that lived on top of his dresser.
I’m not innocent either, though. Various lotions, books, bits of mail and water glasses covered my nightstand, and although I try to hang up all my clothes, it doesn’t always happen.
Our ultimate end goal has always been to have a bedroom that screams “Sanctuary” instead of “Grand Central Station.” And in our effort to achieve a place to call our own, we’ve come across a few simple steps anyone can take to make their bedroom sexy again, and far more relaxing.
1. Keep your kids out.
Kids can come in, but they aren’t welcome to stay or bring all their crap into our domain. In my 10 years of parenting, my child has slept with us in our bed exactly once. We’re not co-sleepers and we never could be. (We did share a room with our tiny newborn babies for a few weeks, but as soon as they were sleeping for a decent stretch at night, they were booted to their own bed down the hall.)
If you’re co-sleepers and love it, by all means keep it up. But if you don’t? It’s time to start looking for ways to get your bedroom back. Same goes for toys: what comes in must go out. It’s really hard to feel sexy when you’re sauntering toward your husband in lingerie and something squeaks underfoot.
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