How to have a meaningful date conversation – See this now!

3. Figure out if you two are on the same page.

On a first date, you want to get a sense of someone’s emotional maturity because that’s critical to a healthy future relationship.

Try asking “what’s most important to you in your life right now?” If they’re still carrying grudges from the past, or trying to find the next perfect job or apartment, you might think twice about investing too much time waiting for the ink on this puppy to dry.