5. There’s no sexual tension. Sexual tension (or lack thereof) is probably the single biggest problem in sexless marriages. It’s something couples often forget about as they grow more comfortable with each other. Instead of drawing out the buildup to sex in a fun, agonizing and pleasurable experience, couples often fall into a routine of “turning up” and expecting it to happen.
Now that you understand how marriages become sexless in the first place, it’s time to learn some techniques to fix yours.
If you find that your man suffers from sexual shame or has low testosterone, then you’re going to need a doctor to fix these problems. For every other problem, you can use one of these techniques:
1. Build up sexual tension.
When you do it right, your man is going to want to rip your clothes off. Building sexual tension involves doing things that make your man think about sex, but make it difficult for it to happen.
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