#3 Make an effort. No matter how fantastic your outfit, if you haven’t bothered to shower, do your hair, and spray a bit of nice cologne on before you leave the house she isn’t going to be massively impressed!
#4 Be confident. Build up your confidence before your date. Have a mantra that you say to yourself in the mirror, listen to a great song that gets you pumped, remind yourself that she likes you, and you have nothing to lose.
Even if you feel pretty nervous inside, if you give off that air of confidence then you stand a much better chance of winning her over. When it comes to seduction, uncertainty, stuttering, shaking, and being unsure simply aren’t your friends!
#5 Create the perfect atmosphere. Obviously creating the perfect atmosphere all depends on where you have arranged to meet, but there are always things you can do. If you are going for a drink, pick an intimate wine bar over somewhere with loud pumping music where you can’t sit and barely have a conversation.
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