Ignore her
Biologically, women are wired to have fluctuating moods due to various hormonal surges that occur from time to time in their systems. The sooner you get to realise that most of the issues that trigger negative reactions in her are not really the cause and that the cause mostly lies with her hormones and ovaries, the better for you. It is normal for women to experience these emotional fluctuations up until they are in their late 40’s and close to menopause when they even become crazier.
Of course, you can choose to pamper her and in that way help reduce the quarrels or go the other way and avoid dealing with her in such crazy moods. Opting for the latter doesn’t make you a devil in anyway as it is expected that most girls would have female friends with whom she can discuss those issues with and who can relate well with how she’s feeling at that point in time. And if she takes out her frustrations on you, simply ignore and walk away as paying attention would only help complicate matters.
Women love to revel in male attention and when you fail to give her that, she gets the idea that she’s not worthy of your attention whenever she behaves in an untoward manner. In simple terms, leave her to tend to herself when she’s acting crazy and spoil her when she’s calm and ready to rationalise issues.
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