5. Don’t get hung up on control. All this said, don’t become fixated on getting him to touch you exactly the way you want, every time. “When we resist the urge to control, when we keep ourselves open, we preserve the possibility of discovery,” says therapist Esther Perel in her book, Mating in Captivity. “Eroticism resides in the ambiguous space between anxiety and fascination.” So be open and curious to whatever he tries, too.
Most men truly want to rock your world in bed. But they’re working against the myth that just being hard and having stamina is what women want. We’re more complex than that! And that’s a lot of misplaced pressure on them.
The truth is, the more fun sex is for you, the more fun it is for them, too. So, make sure you both get what you want out of your lovemaking sessions.
What do you think is the best way to communicate what you want in bed?
–TheStir
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