10 Signs you are not satisfying your partner in bed

6. “Is That It?”

This is never a question any man or woman wants to hear from anyone’s mouth; especially after what you thought was the best sex ever. It is embarrassing, but it is also letting you know that hey, you basically are pretty crappy at what you do and how you are doing it. Take it as a lesson and improve whatever it is you need to improve as soon as possible. If you are constantly leaving your hook up buddy, significant other or your spouse with open ended questions or a lingering feeling of regret, then you just might be bad at sex.