9. You allow your biological clock to pressure you into a relationship you’re not fully sure about.
It’s hard when you want children and are single and feeling the pressures of time, but the reality is that having and raising children with someone you’re not sure about isn’t fair to anyone involved, including any future children you may have. If you want a baby, you can have a baby, but to have a baby with a man just because he’s a man is a bad, bad idea.
10. You use cute words and phrases to describe bad behavior.
Ghosting is actually ignoring someone. Referring to your time together as “hanging out” when you’re sleeping together is hurtful.
11. His actions don’t speak louder than his words.
A lot of people say a lot of things (and that can even include “I love you”). It’s nice to hear lovely words, but if you’re sensing a disconnect between what he says and what he does, you need to stop listening and open your eyes. If you only paid attention to the time, attention, respect andaffection he showed, how convinced would you be?
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