12. You put up with any behavior that makes you feel uncomfortable.
You, and only you, are responsible for making your boundaries clear and walking away from anyone who doesn’t honor them.
13. You’re willing to wait for him.
If it’s not the right time, it’s not the right time. Sitting on the shelf while someone else weighs the pros and cons of being with you, or worse, doesn’t think of you at all, is going to leave you heartbroken.
14. You think he’s changed the second time around.
People can absolutely change, but if he was a selfish, immature or a cheater the first time around, you’re taking a major risk counting on his “a-ha” moment. Just know that going in means going in with open eyes and a preparation to take full responsibility if things do not work out this time around.
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