3. You don’t want to believe that most dates won’t lead to relationships.
There’s no shame in wanting to meet someone special and get your groovy love vibes flowing, but if you’re going into dates with the expectation that every person will be “the one,” you’re setting yourself up for immense disappointment.
Think about it rationally for a moment: As we get older and more clear about who we are and what we want, it’s only natural that we will be more selective about who we will choose to spend time with. Instead of placing that kind of pressure on yourself (and the date itself), expect what you’re guaranteed to get out of it: a chance to meet someone new and an experience. That’s it (for now).
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