4. You forgo asking the tough questions up front.
Sure, you want to keep it light and have a good time on the first date, but you should also feel very comfortable questioning comments that send signals that you aren’t a good long-term match. If a guy says he just got out of a marriage or isn’t sure he wants kids, and you’re looking to meet your future husband and start a family, it’s 100 percent OK to ask him to clarify what he’s looking for.
It’s also essential that you’re honest about where you are in life. It’s never a waste of time to meet someone, but dating the wrong person for six to eight months is just keeping you from being with the right one.
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