4 things you MUST figure out before getting married.. Very important!

Things you MUST figure out before getting married - The legal questions aren't very sexy, but they're DEFINITELY necessary. It isn't exactly romantic, but discussing legal issues before you tie the knot is necessary . "In certain circumstances, the unanswered legal issues could unravel a marriage," warns Laurie Ruckel, trusts and estates lawyer at Loeb & Loeb in New York City. More..

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