2. Men expect women to be as sexually forward as them.
Well, maybe, maybe not. Let me ask you this: How special would you feel if we made it clear to you that we’ll pretty much go home with anything in a skirt? Not very, am I right? Despite a rather memorable low point in the 90s, when men were expected to be sensitive and shy and cry at movies, the mating game hasn’t really changed all that much over the years.
We let you know we’re attracted to you sexually early and often, and you tell us how far we can go and when. Generally, nobody’s more surprised than we are when you say “yes” right off the bat. This doesn’t mean we’ll think you’re a slut if you sleep with us on the first date, but we will wonder why we were able to seal the deal so quickly.
We may decide that the chemistry was simply too amazing to wait. On the other hand, we might think that you aren’t all that discriminating about who you take to bed. If our goal is to find a temporary sexual partner, this isn’t necessarily a problem. But if we’re looking for something more long-term, we may decide to keep searching until we find someone who wants “us,” not just anyone with the right anatomy.
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