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Crazy myths about what men really want in bed - Don't buy into this sh*t! Males are increasingly finding themselves confronted by some pretty powerful notions about their sex drives and how they respond to the 21st century woman. While some movies portray women as sexually liberated, the reality is that these kinds of programs tend to feed into longstanding myths about men and our expectations of the women in our lives. More..

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LADIES: 5 Crazy myths about what men really want in bed that are completely untrue – Don’t let them fool you!

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