2. You consider cheating to be a pastime.
The mere fact you have someone as your “backup” in the event you break up with your boyfriend is already considered cheating. I mean, why would you be talking to anyone else simply because your partner isn’t available during certain moments?
If you talk to other people and pretend you don’t have a significant other or you still talk to your ex, then you are cheating. If you start deleting text messages to prevent yourself from getting caught, then that gesture already displays infidelity.
If you cheat on your partner, that simply indicates you are not willing to invest all of your time to him or her because you still want to search for another. Since you still search for another, then you still aren’t serious about the relationship.
Mature relationships come from two serious people more than willing to end up together until eternity. If you still consider cheating as a pastime when he or she’s not around, then you’re being immature.
Respect your partner enough to leave that relationship immediately, especially if he or she is up for a serious one. You’re not just hurting the other person, but you’re also downgrading yourself to the lowest form of self-disrespect.
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