8. You do the exact thing your ex did to the person you’re currently dating.
It’s inevitable for some women to get traumatized after they are hurt by douchebags. Sometimes, hurting their partners first is what they feel like doing before they get hurt the same way twice. When you find yourself inflicting the pain upon your new partner, or you find yourself hurting him because he has hurt you, then you are being immature in your relationship.
Like this old quote circulating on Facebook says,
The true mark of maturity is when somebody hurts you and you try to understand their situation instead of trying to hurt them back.
The thought goes that way, but if you find yourself doing so otherwise, then you’re not just being unfair to yourself, but also to your partner. If vengeance is what you aim to do just because a previous lover had hurt you, then you are only depriving yourself from finding the right guy.
Childishness boils down to immaturity. Unlike fruits that are often forced to ripen, maturity shouldn’t be coerced. Figure out what you’re doing wrong and correct your actions.
If you ever feel like you possess immaturity not just in your relationship, but also in general, change. Change is inevitable, but you have to start with the right way of thinking before proceeding.
Maturity must evolve deep within you before you apply it in your relationships. Although it’s a long process, the time it will take is worth it.
If you don’t give yourself a chance to grow up, you’ll be missing half of the good things life has to offer when you already know better. Start reading between the lines, and know the things you should understand and the things you should start avoiding. It will never be easy, but it will be worth it.
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