If you want you marriage to last – Locked and loaded, the deal is now secured: you’re officially married. Now you can sit back, relax and live happily ever after, right? Wrong! Of course, you could kick back and relax, but that will lead you straight down a path to unhappiness. Trust me, no one ever thinks they’re the ones going from a blissful “I do” to an ugly divorce, (or even worse, living unhappily ever after),
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But if you don’t continue nurturing your relationship, your happy, new marriage will quickly find its tragic end. You’ve invested a lot in your relationship thus far, so don’t slip towards the dark side. You can avoid marriage-doom if you regularly do these four loving things:
1. Keep your story alive
You’ve likely dated for years and spent a lot of time getting to know every little detail about your partner. How else would you know that you wanted to spend the rest of your life with this person, right?
You endured months of marriage preparations, balanced each of your unique opinions and desires, and got to your big day without becoming Bridezilla. You’re feeling accomplished and a sense of completion.
Only, marriage has no completion. It’s not a one-chapter book that ends with ‘I do.’ It’s a long, enduring story that is always unfolding, growing, changing and drawing the reader back in. The characters and plot change though your various life experiences together … and challenges will always be part of your story. But, hopefully, you’ll always be there for each other, always learning from each other. Understand that your wedding was simply chapter one of a beautiful story you’re continually creating together.
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