Things you do that makes it easier for men to cheat – Be careful. Oh no, you just found out he cheated! It’s like a sucker punch to the gut and all the blood just drained from your face. You’re devastated. You’re angry. You’re embarrassed. You’re confused. And as those emotions kick you around, shame envelops you.
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How could this have happened?
Research tells us that at least 40 percent of men cheat on their partners. You’re thinking, “Why me?”
It turns out, you may have made it EASY for your man to betray you. Am I blaming his bad behavior on you? No. Of course, he makes his own choices and is responsible for the outfall of those choices. But if any of the following apply to you and your relationship, the path to cheating was pretty well set down for him:
1. You allowed him to cheat on someone else to be with you
Really? What kind of stand up guy did you think you were getting when you fell for his charm? A man of integrity gets his affairs (no pun intended) in order before he moves on to his next conquest. And, a woman with integrity would have demanded that he is 100 percent available before hooking up with him.
Since he didn’t delay his gratification before being with you, then he won’t delay his gratification when the next little hottie comes along. But, you think you’re different, right? What did he say to convince you of that? Let me guess, stuff like:
- I never met anyone like you.
- She doesn’t understand me like you do.
- She and I are just living like friends; we haven’t had sex in forever.
- She’s such a nag.
- All she does is bitch!
Did he confide in you all that was wrong in his current relationship, but never addressed his dissatisfaction with his actual partner in healthy and honorable way? Chicken shit! That’s what you get when you choose a cheater!
You can increase your odds for fidelity if you’re a woman of integrity. Never, ever choose a man who is in relationship with another woman. A man of integrity completes the relationship he’s in before starting a new one with you.
I know you’re hot for each other, but good God! Have some respect and set yourself up for success with a standup guy. Hey, maybe he was hurting in his relationship, but cowardice is weakness. Maybe you want a weak man — if you do, go for it. But when he cheats, remember … I told you so!
What do you think he’ll do when the two of you drift apart, even a little bit? Sure, you could get a little paranoid now and check his phone to see who he’s calling, but that will lead right into the next thing you do that makes him cheat.
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