3. You never show your appreciation for him
Do you remember when you first met your man and you appreciated all the little things he did? (Like holding your hand when you crossed the street. Or, opening the car door for you?)
You showed your appreciation with a flash of your eye, a squeeze of his hand … or, maybe even a blow job on the way home in the car.
His thoughtful gestures toward you will likely cease when you stop showing your appreciation for him. No one likes being taken for granted. How do you know you’ve reached that point? When you hear yourself demanding, whining, sulking, or otherwise arguing about why he’s no longer doing it. Even if he starts back up at this point, it’s only because you made him feel obligated.
Good men feel compelled to give themselves to women, and as you deepen your relationship, your guy will automatically sacrifice for you in ways that neither of your will fully comprehend. But if you aren’t aware of his sacrifices and fail to show him how much you appreciate him, then you’re set for the cheat.
When your guy feels that he MUST take the garbage out to satisfy you, then you’ve lost him. He then becomes vulnerable to every pretty thing that smiles his way and shows him an ounce of appreciation when he casually (and innocently) offers a gesture of kindness. Then BAM…. Or, should I say, “Wham, Bam, Thank you Ma’am!” (If you know what I mean…)
Want to increase your odds for fidelity? Show your appreciation on a regular basis. Do so by maintaining eye contact with him, smile at him, and say “thank you.” If you do all of that and follow it with a blow job, then you’re really back on track!
In closing, I believe in 100 percent self-responsibility. So, yes, the truth is — it’s never ‘your fault’ if someone cheats on you! But, you may need to up-level your game to attract the kind of man who would never cheat.
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