4. You’re stuck in the past.
Often times a fear of love is rooted in our past. It can involve painful experiences and disappointments. It can reflect the negative impact of sexual and/or emotional abuse. It can even be a byproduct of peoples’ inborn sensitivity.
Any of these conditions can bring allure to a situation involving unrequited love. Caught in its painful cycle, we can taste passion without being swept away by it. We can nurture our desires by always keeping ourselves one step away from fulfilling them.
If you are pining over someone who is not returning your love, I urge you not to waste your time anymore. If you really desire a relationship, remember that it will not happen with out two people having the same feelings at the same time. It is difficult but necessary to take a look at yourself know what is holding you back from finding love.
Take a risk, be vulnerable and take a chance on real (and reciprocated) love. There is nothing like having a partner to share your life with whom you can count on, is emotionally available to you and more than willing to love you back.
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