The 5 steps to breaking up with a man – Be a grownup. OK? You know something is wrong between you and him, so do you just pull the trigger, kill this relationship dead and move on? No, take a moment. Look at what you used to have between the two of you and what you’ve got now. Make a list of where you two have gone off the rails. Seeing your problems in black and white helps you put things in perspective.
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The next question to ask yourself is do you want to put things back on track? If you think with some tweaking, you can get your relationship running smooth, then it’s worth doing, isn’t it?
You’ve assessed how you feel, now for the tough stuff. Talk to him about the way you feel and the changes for the worse you’ve noticed. Even if he’s neglecting you, there may be a relationship worth saving.
Guys get wrapped up in their own lives and that makes them dense to everyone around them. They may not be aware they’re doing you harm. Also, guys aren’t talkers. His turning away from you could be indicative of his fears.
He may be worried things are moving too fast and this is his way of slowing things down, or it could be something outside of your relationship that’s sucking up his energy. Either way, get to the bottom of the problem. But if you’ve tried getting through to him, and you’ve tried to make changes for the better and it’s all failed, then breaking up may be the best way to go.
Hopefully, he’ll respond to you pointing out that you two are in trouble, but there’s also a chance he’s not interested and he doesn’t care. Then, whether you like it or not, you’ve hit the end of the road. If it isn’t working for you, then go.
Check your happiness barometer. If the needle is pointing to storm clouds all the time instead of the smiley sunshine face and you can’t see a way of swinging it back, then you’ve got a problem.
Breaking up is never easy and requires thought and strength. It’s going to leave a wound, but you’ll eventually heal. Here’s how to break up with someone:
1. Make a clean break.
OK, you’ve decided it’s over. You want to start fresh and meet someone compatible. This is the real tough bit: actually ending it. It’s not going to be fun, but you have to be courageous. You have to actually say the words, “It’s over.” There can’t be any confusion. There’s no good way, but some ways are better than others.
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