9. It’s not like you won’t feel intelligent around them.
It’s true. It’s an ego boost.
The cons:
The cons:
1. You will most likely run out of conversation topics.
It’s really difficult to date long term when you can’t have intelligent conversations. Even if it’s only once in a while, you do want to talk about things like technology, books and art with your partner. When all you get in return is a blank stare, it can get really old, really fast.
2. Good luck trying to explain complex topics.
Admittedly, there are certain topics I will never understand. However, when you regularly feel like you need sock puppets to explain something to a guy you’re dating, it gets frustrating.
3. They can get insecure and there’s no guarantee that they can manage their insecurities well.
An insecure idiot can quickly turn into an abusive one. Many guys who aren’t intelligent are also very emotionally immature, which means that they won’t be able to work on their insecurities without hurting you to make themselves feel better. Keep this in mind when you’re with a brainless boy toy.
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