5. A Great Sex Partner Doesn’t Skimp On The Foreplay
If you don’t think by now, you should: women need foreplay more than men. When you’re warming up for a big race — as sex can often be like — you have to stretch everything out and warm up before crossing that finish line. If you have the same kiss, touch, lick and spank tango, your girlfriend is probably getting tired of it already. “The good news is that foreplay need not be relegated to some kind of step-by-step routine you learned in high school. A great sex partner knows that foreplay is anything that increases the anticipation of sex in their partner,” Boykin says. “Sexy text messages, a photo, a massage, a little help around the house- whatever it takes to help your partner transition from the busy-ness of their daily routine into a mental (and physical) space that is focused on experiencing pleasure counts as foreplay.”
The key to foreplay, really, is making sure your partner is happy. Why? When they’re at their happiest and most comfortable, that’s when they will let go sexually and both of you will have a better time.
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