Ways to know if you are satisfying your woman in bed – Today, we have another sex-pert in the house, Ms Vicky Osubor and she takes us on another orgasmride. This time, she talks about why some women fake orgasm when in the real world, they have not gotten to that great point every woman long for during sex.
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In my over 8 years of dealing with couples on issues of sex, I have come to realise that more than 70% of women fakeorgasm and the funny thing is that their husband’s or lovers are not the wiser.
Some fake it very regularly, that is, every time she has sex, while others only do it sometimes.
In fact, there was a woman I treated and she confessed that she has never experienced orgasm for the 6 years she had been married to her husband but has to put up a fake show every time they make love.
Most women are often afraid to be truthful, or simply don’t know themselves what’s possible. The woman may also feel pressure to perform and prove herself a sexy woman and in such situations, she has to put up an act.
On the other hand, most men don’t realize that the woman needs to first to feel safe, comfortable, intimate, and in touch with her sensuality before she’s ready for genital stimulation. She may be afraid to say that she needs more time.
Another problem is that some men do not even take the time to turn their women on before humping on her and before she is even ready, he is done and rolls off her.
She may be afraid to say that she needs more time. She may be afraid to show her real feelings if they don’t fit what’s supposed to happen in bed. And she may be afraid to hurt her husband’s feelings by telling him that whatever they are doing is not turning her on.
That said, here are some signs that a woman is faking orgasm.
If you want to know if you are being duped, use the following signs that she really is having an orgasm to distinguish the fake from the real big O
1. Retraction of the clitoral head
This is the first sign that a woman is truly getting there because it occurs just before orgasm and provides you with a clitoris-sized hint. The most visible position of the clitoris begins to swell as secretions occur in the inside and the opening of the vagina.
At this point, the head of her clitoris will give a retracted sign and when this happen, know that you are on the right track. This coveted disappearance of the clitoris isn’t only visible if you have the lights on and her face all up in it; it’s something you can feel as well. There will be a tightening of her vagina around your penis and you can feel whether she’s actually close to climaxing. But if this is lacking and she tells you she has reached orgasm, know that she is just faking it..
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