Sure signs he’s just keeping you as a side chick – In our haste and desperation to be in a relationship, a lot of people lose their self-worth and self-esteem.
When you love someone, it’s natural for you to have certain expectations from that person. But out of desperation, a lot of people lower their standards of how they should be treated by their partners.
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They overlook so many things which may be a pointer that you are just an option and not a priority.
A lot of people out there are under the impression that they are a ‘serious girlfriend’ or ‘wife-to-be’ when in reality, they are nothing more than certified side chicks, a play thing or booty call.
Everyone wants to be reassured in love, because uncertainty could drive one crazy. It hurts a lot to discover that you have been wasting your time and emotions on someone who never considered you a priority and you’re eventually left alone to pick up the pieces of your life.
Ever feel like you’re being taken for granted in your relationship? Watch out for these signs to know if you’re an option or priority.
1. He won’t introduce you to his family/friends: If you’ve been with this guy for over a year and you haven’t met his friends or family, you are clearly just an option. If he has never asked you to hang out with them, go to a party or get together with them, then you need to start thinking of moving on.
Sure, you may not want to hang out with his friends much, but it should be your decision and they should at least know you.
2. He never takes you out: If all you do is hang out with him in his house, you are definitely a side chick. Chances are that you are a secret and he doesn’t want to be seen with you in public. He probably has some other girl, who he doesn’t want to find out about you.
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