7 sad reasons women think they will never find lasting love

4. They Take It Too Personally 

Of course you can learn something from failed relationships, but too many women learn the misguided lesson that they’re less attractive and worthy human beings than the women who’ve managed to find a lasting relationship. A far more useful lesson is that failure means they’re simply doing something wrong. That really isn’t a disaster because you can always learn how to change a behavior. SEE ALSO: 6 Amazing facts you didn’t know about the clitoris