13 reasons women still fall for the wrong guys easily

Reasons women still fall for the wrong guys - Oladele Hakeem writes on how some ladies still make the mistake of cheaply falling for the wrong men. The advent of technology has changed a lot of things in the 21st century. More.. Divorce cases that shook Nollywood.. The 11 most eligible celebrity lesbians (With Pictures) How a mammy water almost ruined a UNILAG student – You need to see this! Top 20 bootylicious African celebrities – You need to see who’s #1 (+Photos) This has affected people’s social life. It permeates further into the ways individuals decide what they want for themselves. It is not surprising to see people watch all sorts of things on the television set and other visuals and believe these things hook, line and sinker. Suffice to say that ladies are often more the culprits of these things. They are shown images of the most handsome men and what it takes to have these men. However, this is far from the real truth. It is these images and qualities that ladies think of and expect any man that approaches them to have. They later realise that things are not so after having bad experiences. Some of the under-listed are sometimes the reasons why ladies fall cheaply. 1. Monetary factors It is a general belief that money is the major tool needed to have any lady. A great number of men do say: ’If you want to get that girl, just bring out some cash in front of her’. Sometimes, a man who quickly knows that a lady is a money freak takes much advantage of such a lady. He deceives her by buying what she loves like chocolates, dresses and other female accessories. The unsuspecting lady in no time becomes magnetised to the guy. The guy thereafter plays the lady like a yoyo and does whatever he wants before kicking her away. Navigate using arrows below 2. Family background One of the personal challenges of some ladies is inferiority complex. These complex issues come in different shades. For instance, a lady who is from a not too wealthy family might be submerged if she meets a man that is rich. If the guy walks up to her and dazzles her with his expensive suit, marble wristwatch and shining shoes, she might feel uncomfortable. On sensing this, the man in question courts her to his side. In a short time, she sees the man as her benefactor. As this particular man has no good intention for the lady, he capitalises on this and uses the lady the way he feels. SEE ALSO: 5 ways to identify a sex-starved guy

3. Educational status Education is one of the socioeconomic factors that almost everyone cherishes. Nobody in this present day world wants to be left behind. The importance of learning is vivid in the proliferation of higher institutions of learning in Nigeria today. Education confers power on an individual that has it. The beauty of knowledge is that the more you know, the more people respect you. Some guys stay away from working class and educated ladies. Such men go for less educated girls. This is because it is easier for them to deceive those girls. This is common among higher institution guys. Likewise, graduate guys when they go for their National Youth Service Corps (NYSC). These men tell all sorts of cock and bull stories to the unsuspecting town girls. These girls are easily deceived. Upon completion of their national assignment, these ladies then discover that they were used. 4. Physical appearance Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. This applies to almost everyone. Ladies also are attracted to the physique of men. You hear females saying something like, ” I want a tall, dark and well-built man.” In the real sense of it, not all men with these three qualities are responsible. A woman with this thinking at the back of her mind might be making a big mistake. If she prioritises this as her number one factor in choosing a man, men who are players and have these qualities would capitalise on her. She may soon realise that she is in a messy soup after meeting a hit and run man. SEE ALSO: 6 types of prostitutes and where they work

5. Multi directional Women who are not firm in the decisions they take may put themselves at a disadvantage position. Ladies who keep many men may in no time meet men who will outsmart them. It is delicate if ladies jump from one ship to another. They may get their fingers burnt soon because if they grab all, they may lose all. 6. Accent and intonation This is currently reducing. There used to be a time when some guys used their manner of speaking to woo ladies. The American accent was the most popular then. It was used as a bait to ensnare women. These men speak in fascinating tones just to have their way. 7. Personal judgement No one is an island of knowledge. Ladies who believe no man can have his way with them may be making a very big mistake. It is important to let one or two people know about what someone does. If a man knows that the girl he is with does not tell anyone about their relationship, he can take undue advantage of this woman easily. SEE ALSO: 8 things guys will do when they are seriously in love with you

8. Phobia of revealing relationship status to peers The fear of revealing the status of a woman’s relationship to her friends is one of the things ladies should find solutions to quickly. It is common to see a lady whose relationship is headed for the rocks not telling her friends anything. It is when guys dump such ladies that their friends get to know about it. At this time, rooms for amendment may no more be available. 9. Exposure level Ladies who have low level of exposure may be in serious problems. Also, a wrong exposure on how a woman should live her life is also an issue. A lady who flirts around and thinks that she is well-exposed is moving in the wrong direction. She would be used and later discarded. 10. Perception of being the smartest Any woman who believes that no man can outsmart her may need to rethink. A lady who continues living with this notion might meet guys who would not just use her but also defraud her if they know she has money. SEE ALSO: How to have a perfect quickie - Ladies, see this to become a pro!

11. High taste ”Do not bite more than what you can chew” and ”Cut your coat according to your cloth” are the two sayings that are apt for ladies who think above board. They want men who will buy them unimaginable things. They are always day-dreaming. They do not see men who propose marriage to them as serious elements. They prefer guys who will take them to the top of a tall building and later throw them down to its bottom. 12. Thinking levels Some ladies are very myopic in thinking. They judge men only by appearance. They have a pre-made mindset that all men should be the party type. They always want to groove. They want men who will take them from one show to the other. They are easy preys of these men who get them cheaply. SEE ALSO: 10 Signs your partner is about to break up with you - Don't fail to see this now! 13. Fast food firsts (FFF) The FFF or 3 Fs or triple F girls are the easiest to get. They can do anything just because of food. The number one thing they ask from men is to take them to fast food joints or eateries. They order for all kinds of food before the men themselves place for order. They eat without caution. They even order for take away after the guy would have spent thousands of naira on the meal they ate. As long as there is food, they do not bother about what men do with them. Oladele Hakeem , a content editor with Naij.com, holds a BSc (Hons) from UNILAG, a PCWC from NIJ and an MSc in Epidemiology and Medical Statistics from UI. He writes from Ikeja, Lagos. CLICK HERE to join our BBM Channel for faster updates TOP POSTS YESTERDAY Why my marriage crashed – Ini Edo finally speaks I inherited my brother’s laptop after his suicide, what I found on it made me glad he did it Top Nigerian celebrities who are best of friends – You’ll be shocked! (+Photos) 10 signs you are sleeping with or dating a mammy water – Guys, you really should see this! 10 celebs who dumped their partners for younger lovers (With Pictures) 20 Celebrities who have been embarrassingly caught stealing – This will shock many! (With Pictures) 11 things you should never buy your woman – Guys, make sure you see this! (With Pics) The 15 most famous strip clubs in the world – See which is #1 & their locations.. How to start a conversation with a girl for the first time – This will help you.. Top 12 best kept Hollywood secrets of all time – You need to see #1! (With Pictures) 7 things you probably don’t know about Funke Akindele The beautiful wives of top Nigerian comedians – Who is the finest? (With Pictures)

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