7 Important things to consider before divorcing anyone..

Things to consider before divorcing anyone - In this present age and era, the need to stay in a marriage and endure hardships and turmoil have been exhausted. This generation simply doesn’t want to be held down by marriage. With morals and cultural values dwindling every minute, divorce is becoming generally accepted. More..

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Some questions would have to be answered truthfully with or without a counselor. Are they ready to move out and be with someone other than their legally married partners? Is the divorce real or mere threat? Is the marriage worth fighting for or it’s something that has gone beyond repairs? The motive behind the divorce itself should be reviewed. It should be borne in mind that divorce promotes conflicts. Navigate using arrows below Psychological Effect On Kids Most people make plans to divorce and have the children stay with either one of the parents. The emotional strain and mental exertion this procedure puts the children through is depressing. Having them think relationships are meant to break or grownups are weird gives them the wrong impression about life. No need preaching the importance of family in the developmental stages of a child’s life. The women should consider having their children grow up in the arms of the women their ex-husbands would date or marry in the future. The men too should think of the danger of having their kids around unknown guys in this present age where pedophiles seem to be lurking around. This and other consequences should be thought of when proposing divorce. Role Played By Each Individual When problems arise in marriage, with frustration and anger rocking the couples violently, a careful observation could be made by the affected couples. How have they contributed to the building issues? Has the blame been accepted or passed on to someone else? Is there someone fueling the feud and aggravating the matters? These points should be thought over before proceeding with divorce plans. Set Standard For Marriage Marriage has been rushed into by many without foresight. Some venture into it without knowing their partners enough. Some walk into it with little or no expectations while others go into it with unrealistic goals. A couple could get frustrated and bolt if their initial plans and objective isn’t working out. If this is the case, the willingness to readjust the set standard could help before divorce comes in. Success Of The Next Affair People often make mistakes when they compare dating to marriage. Marriage with its everyday tussle could wear out someone while an ordinary relationship is perfect in all its intoxicating and mind-blowing glory. It should be noted that these frenzy relationships don’t last. Instead of considering divorce and starting all over, couples should rekindle their fire of passion and let their marriage glow with a new flame. Love And Emotion It’s common to find divorced couples who can’t let go of each other and try their best possible in ensuring neither of them gets hooked to another person. It is important to search for feelings before seeing divorce as an option. If these feelings exist, they may need to be reignited. Couples should try to reinforce emotional stability before opting out. Life After Divorce When all things have been considered and the resulting action ended in divorce, how would it be? Life after divorce could liberating for some and traumatic for others. If it would leave one filled with anger and resentment, then it’s not worth it. Most people remain bitter long after a divorce. They find it difficult to let go and move on. Conclusively, one’s attitude towards it would show the kind of life one would live after it. CLICK HERE to join our BBM Channel for faster updates TOP POSTS YESTERDAY Epic Fail: 10 most embarrassing celebrity moments ever (With Pictures) Top 10 states in Nigeria with the most beautiful girls (With Pictures) Top 18 most beautiful women in Nigeria - See who's number 1! (With Pictures) I found an iPhone on the ground and what I found in its photo gallery terrified me.. Top 20 celebrities with the most kids - #1 will shock you! (With Pictures) 40 Popular celebrity sex-tape you didn't know - You will be shocked to see this! 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