Thoughts every man has when she doesn’t climax – From a pretty young age we are taught about sex, marriage, love and the human body; we are taught about the function of the female and male body, the steps and changes they go through as you grow and the pleasures and joys of having sex.
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It is what we are not taught that seems to trip us up in life, and we are conveniently left with the idea that sex always leads to a pleasure filled state that is amazing and sunshine and flowers and roses. They have left out the idea that sex can go horribly wrong in so many ways, especially on the male side. Men associate sex with giving a woman the gift of an orgasm; it is not their fault, as it is what we see on television, read in books and are taught by sex experts, but men are likely not expecting that something as simple as an orgasm is hard to reach.
The build-up and obsession with giving a woman an orgasm seems to be crushing the spirits and the egos of men all over the world, like a mental breakdown is hanging in the wings because they cannot do what they believe is expected of them. It is easy for people to live in their head and beat themselves up over something so silly and not really as important as they think. Let’s be clear, an orgasm for a woman is one of the most exciting things in life and if you can help up with that, we truly appreciate it but in the meantime, we also appreciate the effort until you figure out how things really work. Try not to beat yourself up with some of the negative thoughts outlined below.
12. This Is Annoying
We get it guys; it is time consuming. Something that has started out as fun and exciting has turned into this drawn out task and we still have not gotten to the point of mutual pleasure. You are annoyed and it is understandable but it is also well worth the wait (for the female at least). You are young, and healthy and this is the time when you should be practicing and exploring. So do not think of it as annoying, but rather think of it as practice for your future wife by the time you get to her you will be a pro, right?
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