9. I’m Embarrassed
Of course you are embarrassed; it is natural to feel that way but keep in mind that her not achieving an orgasm is not something to be embarrassed about. It is natural for us to feel out of place and want to crawl in a hole when we do not do something that is “likely” and “expected”. This can be remedied by adding a bit more communication to your intimate time; ask questions, figure out what her likes and dislikes are and play up to her moans. Even if she still does not orgasm, at least the two of you had a good time and you are working your way up to that big “O”.
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