5. Discuss your sexual expectations.
Sit down and talk to your partner honestly. Write it all down if you have to so the message doesn’t get lost in frustration or emotion (you may find you have different expectations).
For example, if you can only see each other every two weeks or so and it’s always passionate and romantic, maybe your partner thinks their trying hard enough to maintain things with you; if you live together, or see each other nearly every day, your partner might feel like the familiarity combined with their workload makes it hard to feel intimate except for those rare occasions when it does.
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