3. Sneaky Stickies.
Complimenting someone shows that you’re paying attention. So that’s a good place to start! Take the time to observe your partner when you don’t think they’re watching. Try to notice the things they do in their day so you can find places to stash little messages.
Sticky notes are great for this. Spend some time surprising your partner in the mundane tasks that make up their days. The best is when you can find a spot where you know they’ll be in private and be a bit naughty. Never underestimate a good “you have the most magnificent little bum” sticky note on your partner’s favourite item in the fridge.
The more well thought out and specific these little notes are, the better. When someone shows appreciation for the things we usually take for granted, it puts an extra warm spot inside us when we think of them. So get creative!
Discussion about this post