6. Children may reduce the chances of a divorce, but they definitely reduce marital satisfaction
When a couple gets married, the period immediately after the wedding is usually the time they are most satisfied and happy. After the wedding, most couples experience a slow but steady decline in their marriage satisfaction, a situation that changes for the worse with the birth of their first child. Children are a blessing and they bring joy to the family, but the added responsibilities to care for and provide for these children will usually pull the couple further apart. However, children tend to make a couple stick together even in the worst of times. A couple will usually choose to solve its problems faster and stay together for the sake of the children, a factor that leads to longer and more rewarding marriages after the children have grown up and left.
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