Questions single ladies hate to hear – Life is hard, and we can all agree with this statement. Now, have you ever tried being the single girl in a group of friends that are all in “serious” relationships? Let me save you the time you will waste thinking about that answer, it sucks. There are so many negative stereotypes around being a single girl above the age of 25 that it is borderline offensive.
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Being single should not be something that people feel sorry for you for, nor should it be something that makes people believe that something is wrong with you. Being single is not an epidemic, single women are not a thing that needs to be saved or fixed, as they are owning their independence. Finding the right partner is hard enough; being hassled for not having a partner makes it even more awkward. Society feels like it is their business to chime in on people’s lives; it never matters how close you are with the person, single women do not want to be bombarded with borderline offensive questions and comments that make them want to pluck their own eyes out.
Let this article be a warning to those who read it; please refrain from harassing your single girlfriends about their singlehood. Whether they want to be single or not, they sure do not want to have to talk about it with anyone. Here is a list of questions that you NEED to think twice about asking a single girl, unless you are wearing the right shoes to run for your life.
10. “So Are You Seeing Anyone?”
I was single yesterday when you asked that question, and the day before that and the week before that. When did you foresee that changing in the short time span that you have asked me that question? It is annoying when you ask anyone the same question over and over again, even if you have only asked it once, a question like that can be intrusive and if the person you are asking is feeling insecure about being single it can ruin their entire day. If you are a close friend, you will understand that she may not be up for the conversation but if you are a distant relative who thinks all young ladies should be married, keep it to yourself.
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