5. “I don’t watch adult videos.”
For many people, watching adult videos is the same as cheating. Pleasuring yourself to another person is the same as being unfaithful as far as they’re concerned. You know that that isn’t true almost as surely as you know the sky is blue, but it’s really the kind of empirical thing you can debate. It’s more “passionate” than those kinds of facts. So, for the sake of your relationship, you just say that you don’t and then do. Deceit is bad, but it’s exponentially worse when it’s multiplied by another, greater sin. When it covers up something harmless, it’s almost completely unremarkable.
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